Leadership is not a one direction or one discipline
topic. The concept of leadership to me
can pertain to a single person, a group, or an idea controlling the path. When I think of leadership, the obvious first
things that come to mind is my own experiences.
We all relate the word to different characteristics we hold or held by
others we admire. However, it should be
acknowledged that the act of being a leader is not just an act in itself, but
upholding certain “values.” Values are
what make up many of our decisions every single day. Holding ethical and moral values are key
components in knowing yourself, and additionally knowing your surroundings. In turn, values are extremely influential
when it comes to being a leader and determining what type of leader you grow
into. Just like our personalities, each
person has a different set of values, which can either align with or contradict
others. However, that is to say, just
because two individuals values do not align, doesn’t mean they cannot “value” differing
opinions as tools of reference. Many
times when a leader doesn’t hold the same beliefs or outlook on a situation,
they can at least portray their view by example and live by their own values
they maintain. Not only has it been
discussed in class, but I also believe being a role model in a sense is the
best way to influence our values.
Without them it is hard to have an opinion or stance to be an effective
leader.
In most, if not
all, leadership situations I feel that ethics come into play. Whether faced w a moral dilemma or an
internal conflict of a group, there is always a time when you have to take a
side. Without having a moral opinion, it
is hard to be a leader or take charge of a group that is necessitating
direction and guidance. Furthermore, I
have found it is also easier to be an effective leader when I am passionate and
hold a strong stance of the topic at hand.
When
it comes to my own personal values, I would say it is slightly a case-by-case matter
of situation. I know I value honesty and
owning up to mistakes very highly.
Failure is not a bad thing in my book, but denying a mistakes and trying
to cover up an issue is something that, from experiences in teams and in the
workplace, is not a worthy trait. In addition
to honesty, I think the accountability and authenticity go along the same lines
as being true to yourself and what you are working towards. Many people say that to be a good leader you
don’t have to be driven and outspoken.
While I know in most instances I possess these characteristics, I also
feel that I can be the reserved and a “backseat” leader. The value that I believe allows anyone to be
a leader, no matter the type, is intentionality. Having a purpose and a plan is key to being
seen as a forerunner in a group. While
there is no right or wrong answer to what makes a good leader, it is important
for everyone to be able to justify why they believe in a plan or method, which
necessitates holding individual values to form an opinion.
I loved your section on personal values. I really related when you talked about sometimes being a "backseat" leader. For me, this is a very situation-based attribute. If I am leading in a setting where I am very confident, I will be loud and outgoing. Whereas if I don't feel as confident in my abilities, I tend to become a "backseat" leader. I don't think there's anything wrong with this. Like you said, you don't have to be driven and outspoken in order to be a good leader!
ReplyDeleteOwning up to my mistakes is definitely a new value for me that I have been trying to live up to. Its hard but well worth it to put your pride down and admit when you made a mistake. Thanks for sharing (:
ReplyDelete"Failure is not a bad thing in my book, but denying a mistakes and trying to cover up an issue is something that, from experiences in teams and in the workplace, is not a worthy trait." <--- This quote from your blog really stood out to me! I think it's a critically important value to leadership (actually I think it's a critically important value to being human), but can take such strong will to follow. There have been moments in my career when I've messed something up and been embarrassed by the mistake. As tempting as it may be to find an excuse or fudge the circumstances to cover for myself, it's always better to be honest and take accountability for the mistake. It's amazing that while I can worry so much about the consequences, things work out for the better by swallowing your pride and moving forward with life.
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